This is an era of pluralism，democracy and harmony. Everyone can easily find "real" themselves and express their "real" views，such as photo stickers，digital photography，Internet......But why is the process so easy and simple? Because behind them，others set us up. We are just dolls and tools for others.
Oscar Wilder said: people are not themselves but others. What he thinks is not his own thoughts but others' sermons. His life is a simulation，and his emotions are borrowed. So，we had such a beautiful，relaxed and happy life. We are consuming all kinds of famous brands and chasing all kinds of fashions for fear that we will be exhausted after falling into the market；McDonald's and KFC，equivalent to our fast food noodles in China，are flocking to them for fear of being regarded out of fashion；Even our bodies are shaped by gyms or weight loss advertisements......We spend money and sweat，but we make other people's empires of business. We feel that we are very important，unique and unique in the life that others have designed and planned. As Barbara Kruger's "I consume, I exist" reveals......
Why is it like this?
Between people，just like between the stars in the vast universe - rely on their own gravity to achieve complex but not chaotic relationship. gravity，others around you；If gravity is small，you become someone else's satellite.
How can we dominate ourselves?
